College Essay
My name is Nicole. I am a senior, living in Bricktown, New Jersey. Thinking back to life as a freshman makes me realize how many things have changed. My social and emotional growth has been affected by many factors. I think my family, and the experiences I've had growing up, have had the most significant influence on my sense of values. During my early years I was totally dependent on my parents. I also needed social and moral guidance. I was born into a single parent family 17 years ago. My mother and I had the love and support of my grandparents and four uncles. I realize now, each and every day, how lucky we are to have them in our lives. Being an only child I felt extremely well cared for. I was spoiled with love and affection. For years I did not have to compete for my mothers time or attention. When my mother married in 1993 when I was 9 years old. It was a very difficult time for me. I felt that Bob was invading our lives. He loved me like his own and adopted me shortly after. It took years for our relationship to grow. Lots of love, patience, and caring, eventually led to my love of my new dad.Heredity and environmental influences determine personalities. I tested many different kinds of behavior on pe
Friends have allowed me to experience myself as a leader and follower, a winner and loser, and as an equal. From this recognition, came the challenge of resisting temptation, controlling impulses, and making sound decisions before acting. While I was continuing to grow both inside and out, so was our family. I did not suddenly acquire a sense of what is right and wrong. I would have to say that the impact of family, school and peers has shaped my values and all that I am. I have always felt liked and accepted which has given me a strong foundation for my social and emotional development. I look forward to being challenged academically and will take on these new challenges with enthusiasm. Family unity has been critically important because the stability that it has provided helped me, to acquire independence. Through trial and error I have gradually come to understand the complexities of friendship. Moral development is an ongoing process. When I was young I would usually try to do what my parents expected, to please them or to avoid punishment. The way, in which our parents raise us, generally has a dramatic effect on the type of person we become. I have gained confidence, which is essential for success in the world.
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