In the kids are worth it, Barbra Coloroso explains her experiences raising kids and what she has found to be a great way of raising your children and being the best parent you can be without abusing your children. In this write up I am going to grasp on 3 cons, Bed Time , and Meals I will explain some thing she said and weather I agree or disagree on her theory.
             Con 1 begging Bribing weeping wailing & gnashing teeth we tend to give into a child s " oh please, Oh please, when we give in we are sending a message to the child that we don't believe in you I don't trust you, your not big enough to handle the consequences and I'll take care of you.
             2nd chances are for life- threatening situations. 2nd opportunities 1. Give your child a responsibility then give a consequence and when they blow it give a 2nd opportunity to try it all over again after they have experienced the consequence the first time. We need to mean what we say, say what we mean and do what we say. Con2 the child gets angry with you tells you they "hate you", "this is dumb" little things like that which affect our heart the 3rd thing a child tries is sulking and simply " you cant make me do anything I don't want to do" I don't understand fully everything she covered in this section but I believe you cant let the child always have what they want sulking and saying they hate you id defiantly not the way for the child to get what they want I think you should tell the child to be good and maybe they will get the toy for instance if your shopping if the child gets angry you should tell them there not getting it and when they cry for say let them cry they will eventually realize that there doing all the wrong things to deserve the toy or treat whatever it is that they are trying to get.
             Bed Time- she says don't lie to the kids by saying that they need there sleep tell them we nee
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