Often we tend to rely heavily on our partners for the source of our happiness and we fail to realize the importance of our needs. Until one day, we lose that person, then the cruelty of the unpredictable reality sinks in – we are left alone. Although many has adapted to fate's inevitable tale of separation, many are still left to learn in agony. How should we deal with this on going process and ultimately what should we learn from it? This is not only about relationships in general but more importantly about ourselves. Finally, time will heal us, and we'll eventually be able to carry on with our lives. Whether we choose our new life in solitude or with someone, the important thing to remember is to make ourselves happy. Also, if we choose to be with someone, remember this, in relationships you can give and receive without having to love the person, but you can never say you love the person without having to give.
             Who hasn't experienced a break-up before? Unless if you're fortunate enough to be living inside a fairytale, or unless you have no previous experiences being in a relationship at all. Although break-ups are often painful it's important to know that being alone doesn't necessarily mean being lonely, these are two concepts that are often falsely intertwined. Many people in relationships blindly indulge themselves in the comfort and the magnificent presence of their partner, and a lot of time they tend to lose a sense of self-worth. This is a sign of disaster as many may or may not know, after all how many of us really except to get hurt from being in a relationship? However, the truth is we can't avoid losing someone; if we don't let things get to us, we won't be miserable. Simply ask yourself these questions; if we can't even make ourselves happy, how can we make other people? If we can't even be comfortable with our aloneness, how can we be entirely ...