understanding people
Different people see the world from different perspectives. In our society, there will always be misunderstandings between people and those people's reactions will differ. Some choose to mope, groan, and even get angry about the way that themselves or others are treated while some decide to try and do something about it. Still, there are others who think to themselves that maybe the best way to deal with the issues among people is to try and comprehend what they mean and just live by them. As Benedict Spinoza put it, "I have striven not to laugh at human actions, not to weep at them, nor to hate them, but to understand them." Authors now try to understand actions that people make instead of ridiculing them. The following explains these authors and how they have been able to identify with others. "Under the Influence" is an essay written by Scott Russell Sanders. In this writing he tells how he grew up with an alcoholic as a father. His life was not at all easy. He had to deal with issues that young children should not have to deal with. In this essay he makes the reader understand what an alcoholic is and how the actions of one person who has this disease can affect himself and so many other people. Sanders does this
Brent Staples, the author, wants the reader to understand that there will always be some kind of racial tension between African Americans and white people. Being so religious, she could not share the same bed with her husband knowing that if she did, she was sure to have more children. "I tell myself he drinks to ease an ache that gnaws at his belly, an ache I must have caused by disappointing him somehow. The authors above choose not to try and get angry or complain about the actions of other people. He makes sure that he will never suffer the fate that killed his father. Sanders knows that the best way to evade uncomfortable situations is to stay away from anything that might initiate them. The family was never sure whether they would be happy at the sight of the father or horrified by his presence. In a life filled with religion, her grandmother just wanted to be able to live her days to the fullest. Reading these essays has shown me that it is not always necessary to try and change people simply for what they do or believe in. Sanders understands the his Dad's problem was not his problem to deal with. As a child, Sanders believed that his father's problem was somewhat his fault because he was not a good son. He really did not appreciate her actions, but he started to realize some things.
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