In the novel, The Joy Luck Club, by Amy Tan, the characters Suyuan and Jing-Mei Woo have a mother-daughter relationship
confused with scattered conflict, but ultimately composed of deep love and commitment for one another. Because of drastic
differences in the environments in which they were raised and in their life experiences, these two women have some opposing
ideas and beliefs. This, and their lack of communication are responsible for many of the problems they face in their relationship.
These conflicts are only resolved when June learns about her mother's past. The way that their relationship develops, and the
conflicts June and Suyuan face, reveal some of the themes that Amy Tan intends for the readers to learn. These themes concern
such topics as finding our life's importance, making choices, and understanding ourselves and our families.
Most of the conflicts that June and her mother face are based on misunderstandings and negligence concerning each other's
feelings and beliefs. June does not understand or even fully know her mother because she does not know about her tragic past
and the pain she still feels from the memory of it. Because Suyuan lost two daughters in China, and her entire family was killed
in the war, she leaves this place behind her and places all of her hopes in America and her family there. She wants the very best
f or her daughter June. Even her name, Suyuan, meaning "long-cherished wish," speaks of this hope for Jing-Mei, meaning "the
pure, essential, best quality younger sister." Suyuan tells her daughter June that she can be anything she wants to be, and that
she has great talent. At first June is excited and dreams about what she will become: "In all my imaginings, I was filled with a
sense that I would soon become perfect. My mother and father would adore me. I would be beyond reproach. I would never
feel the n eed to sulk for anything." (p. 143) Suyuan pushes June to be s...