In his poem “The Road Not Taken” Robert Frost uses a theme about how the choices one makes affects their entire life. When we come to a fork in the road of life, a decision needs to be made. Similarly, Blanche Farley also discusses choices in her literary work, “The Lover Not Taken”. Her work however addresses the decision of choosing a lover to travel with along the path of life. Everyone is a traveler choosing a road to follow on their continuous, irrevocable, journey of life, and there is never a straight path that leaves one with a sole direction in which to head.
Frost first confronts the tough decision of choosing a path. He says: “Two roads diverged in a yellow wood, / And sorry I could not travel both” (1-2). Frost displays a strong sense of regret before the choice is made, and it lies in the knowledge that he cannot travel both paths. He must choose one or the other. “The choices a person makes in life are
Finally, there is no turning back after the decision has been made. Likewise Farley is weighing the opportunity cost between two lovers. He knows his decision limits him in exploring life"tms other possibilities. "Committed to one, she wanted both And, mulling it over, long she stood" (1-2). But the other Jack, had a claim " He did wear Well" (6-7, 8-9). He realizes this decision is not a temporary one and he shall never be able to change his decision once it has been made. ultimately responsible for their future, yet at the same time a person can never go back to the past and experience other possibilities" (Goodsen, Kroemer, Michalowski, par. The same forks symbolize for us the connection of free will and providence; we are free to choose, but we do not really know beforehand the consequences of choice at hand. In contrast choosing Jack, or the already known easy path in life, is reassuring to her because the outcome is predictable. Next, Frost presents the dilemma of trying to choose the better path by trying to foresee what they will bring in the future. Everyone"tms lives are determined by an accumulation of those choices and chances, and it is impossible to separate the two. Choosing the blonde, good-looking guy represents the gamble of facing a more risky or difficult path in life in hopes to achieve an incomparable and satisfactory life. Once again at the end of the poem the regret weighs heavily on the traveler.