From Weiss’s article, we know that bit by bit, well-meant little lies can add up to a mountain of big serious deception, but I only agree with that partially because there are many reasons why people tell white lies. Through analyses, we find that goodwill and courtesy lie behind white lies.
We know there are many ways for people to present their goodwill to others. According to the text of Teaching the golden rule, we know the goodwill that people express is physical, direct and visible. However, the goodwill that lies behind white lies is otherwise because it is taken on in empathy. First, a human has the nature of showing compassion for others, so people tell white lies is based on this nat
For example, when a patient who suffers from a very serious illness and only has a couple months to live asks his doctor about his health, the doctor certainly doesn"tmt tell the truth because he instinctively realizes that telling a white lie is better than telling the truth with the patient"tms life. This is why goodwill and courtesy lie behind white lies. Other than these above, courtesy is another important reason for white lies. However, every time he asks me about his face, I always seek a white lie to console him because I know telling the truth will hurt his dignity and courage to live on. First, white lies can play an important role in getting along well with people in different religions, customs and cultures. As is described in Lies, Deception and Truth by Weiss, when a young woman was invited to partake of the tribal delicacy: baby mice dipped in melted butter and swallowed live, out of courtesy, she quickly grasped at a white lie that her religion specially forbade the eating of live baby mice. I have such a friend whose face as well as eyes was ruined by a big fire. People need to get along, so it is difficult to avoid telling white lies sometimes. That way, we can keep a real friendship with them and don"tmt hurt their feelings as well. As a part of courtesy, telling white lies is indispensable in dealing with realities in relation to people. So for, I still feel very sad for him. Second, people"tms telling white lies is for sparing the feelings of someone.