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She feels like she is an outsider because of certain things, such as her clothes, her mother, and her looks. She specifically thinks through questions, he will ask her, in order to determine her ancestry. I will show in Comfort Woman, that characters find-unappealing qualities in relatives, and this causes them frustration and anger, since they had no choice in establishing the relationship. Her mother tries to convince her that everything about society and her body is wrong. While she was aware of the emotions relating to ancestry, she was unaware to the deep extent that Raymond felt about this. This is not uncommon in many people and if these qualities are appealing this can lead to a relationship before determining if the individual has other attributes that they like. Beccah is upset as she thinks, " I wanted to scream, to tell the kids to shut their mouths and go to hell… But I couldn't…Because for the first time, as I watched and listened to the children taunting my mother…And I was ashamed. Aurora, right after their breakup speaks about the reason for the breakup, "Me being not Asian enough or not culturally sensitive enough, doesn't make for very interesting girl talk. For example, a mother, father, sibling would fit into this category. His first thoughts are about race, "Was she part Korean or Japanese? Maybe he was altogether wrong and she was native Alaskan, Indian or Latino. In a short period they had moved in together and were trying to share their lives together. As she gets older and more aware of her surroundings she recognizes many qualities in her mother (some she likes and some she doesn't) that complicate their relationship. This influences a lot of Beccah's behavior.