In Maya Angelou's "Sister Flowers" a little girl finds
encouragement from the woman she idolizes, Mrs. Flowers. Mrs.
Flowers provides Marguerite with attention and with feelings that
are most essential for the development of a child - self-respect,
confidence, and the feeling of being liked. A little girl grows
up to become a great writer, and remembers Sister Flowers with
great admiration as the woman who changed her life.
Similarly, in my life there's someone who helped me become a
better human being. Her name is Betty Friedan and she's the
person responsible for the Modern Women's Rights Movement.
As a married woman with 3 children, Betty Friedan devoted
all her time to being a wife and a mother. Her life as a
homemaker led her to develop a theory on women. It concerned the
dangers of the idea that women should be completely satisfied
with their roles as wives and mothers and that somehow it was
abnormal to want a career or an identity separate from the
family. But women did want more out of life. It was not that they
wished to give up their families, they simply wanted to use their
well-developed minds for more than just deciding what to cook for
dinner, or which detergent is better.
After finding out(by mailing out questioners) that she
wasn't the only one being unhappy with the role of women in
society, Friedan wrote an article and sent it to the leading
women's magazines, but it was rejected with the response that
only "sick" women could possibly feel dissatisfied with being
full-time mothers and wives(Friedan, It Changed My Life). But
Friedan knew otherwise and turned her article into a book, which
took 5 years to complete and was called The Feminine Mystique.
Thought she had not planned to start a revolution, Friedan
began the modern women's liberation movement- the movement to
gain equal rights for women- with the writing of The Feminine
Mystique. Friedan was immed...