Dealing with Grief
The saddest and the scariest day of my life was when my friend, Angela, died in a car accident. What scared me the most was that I could have ended up like her. It took me a while to accept the fact that she is gone and I have to deal with this grief by accepting it, keeping myself busy, and by thanking God that it didn't happen to me.I finally learned to accept what had happened. At first it was really hard to believe that someone I was just talking to yesterday is now completely out of my life. But day-by-day I simply accepted the truth and made myself strong enough to deal with this pain. What really encouraged me to be strong was after I realized how her parents must have been feeling and going through at this point of their life. I also realized that I am not the
Every time I had time to waste, I would help around the house, go out with friends, or just spend my time studying. Like attending school rallies, dances, and joining clubs. Now I know that the saying, "Everything happens for a reason" is true. I found a part-time job which also helped me take my mind off of this incident. By looking at her parents I became strong and simply accepted the truth. Even the things you never thought would happen to you, end up happening to you. That day I was supposed to be with her going to a party, but at the last minute my parents changed their mind and didn't let me go. Every time you have to face the saddest and the scariest days of your lives, you should always find ways to be strong and face the truth. But by keeping myself busy, it really helped me to get over the incident. After all, I lost a friend and can make many more true friends like her. I also kept myself busy with school, friends and family. I didn't want to just sit around and think about what had recently happened, because that way I would have never learned how to deal with grief. I decided to participate in school activities.
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