understanding people
Different people see the world from different perspectives. In our society, there will always be misunderstandings between people and those people's reactions will differ. Some choose to mope, groan, and even get angry about the way that themselves or others are treated while some decide to try and do something about it. Still, there are others who think to themselves that maybe the best way to deal with the issues among people is to try and comprehend what they mean and just live by them. As Benedict Spinoza put it, "I have striven not to laugh at human actions, not to weep at them, nor to hate them, but to understand them." Authors now try to understand actions that people make instead of ridiculing them. The following explains these authors and how they have been able to identify with others. "Under the Influence" is an essay written by Scott Russell Sanders. In this writing he tells how he grew up with an alcoholic as a father. His life was not at all easy. He had to deal with issues that young children should not have to deal with. In this essay he makes the reader understand what an alcoholic is and how the actions of one person who has this disease can affect himself and so many other people. Sanders does this
She still emanates the kind of joy that !can only be achieved by living according to the dictates of one's own heart" (Ortiz 86). He really did not appreciate her actions, but he started to realize some things. If he is walking down the road and feels that someone in front of him may feel uncomfortable, he crosses the street. Sanders understands the his Dad's problem was not his problem to deal with. The authors above choose not to try and get angry or complain about the actions of other people. They better themselves by simply understanding why people take certain actions. Ortiz is showing the reader that her grandmother still loved her husband, but she had to separate them in order to achieve personal contentment. Another essay, from Judith Ortiz Cofer, is entitled "More Room". He is aware that this is just the way that people in general think. by explaining the horror that he and his family had to go through during the years of his father's problem. Even though he did not cause a reason for her to feel threatened, she became fearful and ran away. " These authors have all come to peace with themselves by dealing with others in a positive tone; one that is accepting the way that people are going to be, instead of being against it. I have now become more open minded and find it more suitable to try and understand why they have certain beliefs. "I chose, perhaps unconsciously, to remain a shadow- timid, but a survivor" (Sanders 219).
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