Honesty is not always the best policy
Honesty is not Always the Best Policy I always tried to tell the truth but sometimes, being truthful isn't always the best. There are times when we might want to avoid the full truth, or even tell a lie, in order to protect someone's feelings, or prevent a conflict. I believe we all have to lie or even obscure the truth once in our life. There are three incidents that I can think of when it was best to lie and obscure the truth. When my little young niece asked about her childhood fantasies such as Tooth Fairy or Santa Clause ever existed. I didn't want to be coldhearted to tell her they don't exist. When someone is ill and hospitalized, it is better not to tell him or her the negative thoughts. Negative thoughts have always struck down patient's consciousness of fighting with illness. When my mother asked my father if she was getting too fat. My father had to lie to avoid a conflict and argument with my mother. Young children are most likely curious about their childhood fantasies such as Tooth Fairy and Santa Clause. We all remember when we were little kids, our parents never told us that T
told us she only had two more years to live because of her cancer. There are always hopes as long as patients have faith in their lives. The support we provided helped her a lot, because she didn't die within two years, but live for four more years. ooth Fairy and Santa Clause are phonies. Therefore, it is okay to tell children "white lies" to protect them from dis!appointment. We never heard kids obsess with their fantasies at their childhood or there are cases, which childhood fantasies affect children as they grow up. Besides, there are cases that some patients attempt to commit suicide after they discovered they are going to die soon. Sometimes when my father was too focused on his own stuff, he "slipped" an answer such as yeah, kind of without giving any thought. There are times in which it is best to avoid or even obscure the truth in order to protect someone's feelings, or prevent a conflict. When my mother asked my father if she was getting too fat is the example that people have to lie to prevent a conflict. When my little niece asked me if Tooth Fairy and Santa Clause really exist, I had to obscure the truth and tell her yes. My father lied to my mother so they wouldn't get into a conflict. It makes children have hope and expectation for their lives. I lied to my niece so she won't be disappointed that her childhood fantasies are just a myth.
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