There is no clear determinant for determining when a person becomes an adult, Some say it’s when you turn eighteen others say it’s when you get your drivers license. One thing is for sure though to become an adult you must be mature and ready to take on the world. Being an adult means achieving a separate identity, being able to support your self and/or your family financially, and being able to provide yourself with a house or a place to call home. Adulthood consists of many different aspects, and is not an easy part of life.
To become an adult you must achieve a separate identity. Erik Erickson a Austrian psychologist defined identity as “a sense of self part from one’s family.” This means to be an adult you must become independent so that you will be provided the opportunity to learn and take responsibility for your own lives. Young adults need to know who they are in order to be self-dependent, they also need to know their strengths and weaknesses, and the values they consider to be important to them. Young people who enter the adult world with a strong understanding of who they are
You must make decisions about career goals and even personal goals you must also accept responsibility for maintaining a residence, and obtaining the financial needs to support yourself. There is also plenty of decision making in adulthood and you don"tmt always have an elder to help you out. Without a steady job it is hard to get settled and can cause many problems in your life. Everyday you do the same thing and spend almost all of your time at your job, so to not like your job will cause many stresses and may eventually lead to bigger problems. You must also like what you do because work occupies such a large part of your lives. Sometimes staying at home is the best answer and can be a great help in saving up your money. and obtained a strong sense of self- developing in adolescence should have no problem obtaining an emotional identity that is separate from their former family. Being an adult means entering the world of work. None of these things are easy but in the adult world nothing is, and you must be ready to take on whatever this world throws at you. By being able to say something that you are proud of and that impresses others will give them an automatic first impression and will place you in their social context. There are many different views on what being an adult really means, but basically you need to be away from home, earning a steady income, and living in a place that you pay for. Leaving the family home and setting up your own home is what every young person wants, but in reality it is very hard to achieve. Now that you have achieved a separate identity and have a steady income you must find a place to call home. In our society, work goes beyond the economic aspects and has a deeper meaning in many lives.