The birth of a younger sibling is a major life occurrence for a child.
The parents attitude in the time period of adjustment is crucial for the child's
acceptance of the younger sibling. Sibling Rivalry can basically be
described as siblings who are jealous or hostile toward each other. This
rivalry is usually expressed through competitive behaviour. Older children
especially tend to express their rivalry more competitively – while younger
children tend to push, grab, hit or tease. This problem behaviour surfaces
from the threat that a brother or sister will become more important or more
loved by the parents. It is not uncommon for young children to feel jealous
when a new baby enters the family. A child may respond with hostility, start
using baby talk, wet the bed, or act out resentment on the parents. However;
minor arguing between siblings teaches children how to cope with
competition and rivalry outside the home, on a daily basis. Sibling rivalry
teaches children how to solve problems, and respect others. If it is permitted
to go far though, it can cause a lifetime of bitter feelings between siblings.
Most siblings go through some phase of jealousy at some point.
Factors that may contribute to this include
• Individual characteristics : Children who get fussy or bored easily,
tense or easily frustrated may create sibling rivalry. Children who are
slower academically or athletically than their siblings often feel
jealous which also creates sibling rivalry.
• Family function : Working to improve how smoothly your family
functions may help to reduce the chances of sibling rivalry.
• Television and movies : Research has proven that exposure to violent
television and movies increases the chance your child could be
aggressive. Most television shows portray siblings as constantly in
conflict and disrespecting each other.
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