Ordinary People

             The novel Ordinary People explores how the heart and mind recover from afflictive losses. The author Judith Guest depicts how a tragedy can change lives drastically and even tear families apart. This novel illustrates how people deal with such emotional stresses differently, healing slowly but surely.
             The death of Jordan Jarrett affected the Jarrett family greatly. Calvin, his father, was one who dealt with the situation the best. He had been orphaned at a young age, so he had already dealt with the loss of his mother. "When he was eleven, he learned the association of the word loss with death" (pg. 49). He was more understanding and cooperative with his family that mourned. He knew the things that would comfort them, just as he had once needed comfort in his life.
             The death had a different impact on the mother, Beth. She went into what seemed like a state of denial. She hid her feelings from everyone and kept trying to give the impression that nothing happened and nothing was wrong. Cal once noticed this about his about his wife Beth before they had separated, "there is an addiction here; to secrecy; to a private core within herself that is so much deeper than he ever imagined it to be" (pg. 253). The death changed the way the once happily married couple acted towards each other; so much that they could no longer stand living with each other. Still, there was clearly still a strong bond between them.
             Conrad's life took a turn for the worse after the loss of his brother. He was so overwhelmed with the feeling of depression, guilt, and loss that he tried to commit suicide. Luckily he survived and spent the next year trying to recover in a hospital. He thought to himself on Christmas day, "only a year and a half, still it is a long time to discover that you are still in shock, still the infant stages of recovery" (pg. 124). Eventually he went back to school, had a g
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