Fifteen years ago, when I still lived in Vietnam many parents believe spanking is the only method to discipline a child. In today society, punish a child by spanking is no longer a right way to teach him/her. Spanking may cause many negative problems to a child for instance, spanking may lead to abusing a child, it may train a child to use violence act and communication problem between child and parents. Therefore alternative method should be use when you want to discipline a child.
             First of all, spanking children may lead to abusing them; spanking may become a standard response to any misbehavior. Many parents do not realize we hit children by anger, so much spanking can become abusing. Parents often repeat spanking whenever a child misbehaves and believe spanking a child is the only way to teach them a lesson to follow what they said. Parents don't realize they're hurting their children physically and may permanently damage for life. Reasoning why in today society spanking is no longer an effective way for punishment.
             Spanking children may train them to use violence as a form of resolving problems. Hitting a child for punishment might make them think hitting is okay to use on their friends and family. In many cases negative effects grow through a child's life and even when they grown up, those negative problems might cause a person to abuse people around them. Many of these negative effects may never be correct for life. Children grown up in an abusive family will lightly abuse their own love one later on. Parents should never use spanking to solve problem with a child, this will train them to think its okay to use harsh punishment.
             Children may never tell their parents what happen in their life because the consequence that they might get spank. Spanking children may lead them to believe their parent doesn't love them because of the harsh punishment. Spanking a child only effect for the moment, in long term ...