R.E.S.P.E.C.T: What it means to me!

The company that I invite over has a tendency to simply leave things lying around.

My brother and sister in law also believe that they need to have the top of the line things. When they do pick things up it’s usually with the intent of taking them home. It has been my experience that, no matter what my intentions are towards my guests, be it visiting, catching up on old times, or hosting a get together of some sort, I am always going to be faced with someone that has a feature which I find less than appealing. When I offer something to them they just stick up their noses at me as though my belongings aren’t good enough for them. When I confront them on their less than welcome behavior, they usually start yelling. There are many qualities I find detestable in others, as well as myself sometimes, but I do my best to stay gracious because we are human after all; no one is perfect.

There have been times when I have gone to make something for dinner and its not there. They eventually leave and do not show up for awhile unless they need something else. They both leave their soda cans all over the house and dirty dishes on the counter or even outside. I don’t believe that I am the only one to feel that it is both rude and inconsiderate to dirty someone else’s property and then leave the mess for that other person to tidy up. My brother and sister in law will come over, make something to eat and not clean up after themselves.

As you can see, people that are inconsiderate of others are not only rude, but they can also wear out their welcome.