Everybody agrees with the statement "communication is the best way to deal with conflicts", but do we really use communication to resolve our conflict?
             We live in a society in which we have to interact with a lot of people, both at work or at home. We have to finally understand that even if there are many ways to deal with conflicts, such as withdrawal, surrender, aggression, persuasion, and communication, only the last one will lead to a successful solution. Communication can help us to see the other person's point of view, and it makes us analyze the way we are acting in relation to the specific problem. Moreover, communication helps us to solve the conflict quickly.
             When we adopt communication as our way to resolve conflicts, we can easily see the other person's point of view. When we communicate, we are able to understand what the other person is trying to tell us, as well as realize how right or wrong our point of view may actually be. For instance, when we have a conflict we often tend to think that our position is the right one, which makes us close-minded. We are unable to see what the other person wants to explain to us, and we can suddenly get stuck in our own point of view without considerate the other approaches. This situation, far from helping to resolve the problem, deepens personalizes the conflict, pushing us farther from a solution.
             Likewise, using communication while dealing with a certain conflict helps us to solve it quickly. When we communicate we begin to feel calm, and it helps us to increase the number of ideas that could come to our mind in order to find a solution. For example, last year I was involved in a conflict with one of my aunts. Our problem was that we did not use communication to resolve our problem. Actually, we started to tell other members of our family about our conflict and we did not have the courage to talk about it by ourselves. After that, the more people we to...