Few people say, "In the situation of the unborn child's parents, the one who is affected most is the mother. Obviously, she carries the baby". But what about the reaction of a father? Does abortion really affects him? This only by his own choice. Whether he wants to change his life or just allow his past victimize him. Sometimes, he ignored it or maybe others are really involved especially when they oppose the act of abortion. Sometimes other people never know that fathers also cry alone. Deep inside, they really feel the pain and aches. Confused, they leave the decision-making to the woman. Then soon, they want to accept the reality that they are awaiting for the birth of their child. As a result, they became angry; fear conquers his whole heart and soon develops self-pity. But what he must do? He needs healing. He must accept that he was certainly wounded by abortion that took the life of his unborn child. Healing must begin when the tears come. Through this, it can open his heart and soul. Another way of healing is the need of companion in order to help through embracing him. This could cure the inside wound and help him learn how to forgive himself and to regret. Perhaps, he should also think the Almighty God's involvement, for God also is a father and forgive His
             people. He should also ask for His forgiveness. From then on, he could find hope to have a new life.
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