I've always been a philosopher at heart, overanalyzing
            
 situations, people, and nature; questioning values and
            
 our existence. Having long discussions that often lead
            
 into arguments on various aspects of life inspires me,
            
 as I take in other people's perceptions on life and
            
 develop my own. Over the past couple of years my views
            
 have drastically changed, and as I matured I sorted
            
 I had an epiphany one night last year, while having a
            
 telephone conversation with my friend Andre. He was a
            
 little older than me and a lot wiser. Him and I spoke
            
 for hours as we discussed life's many unanswered
            
 questions. That night we argued on the topic of
            
 destiny and whether it exists. I am one of those
            
 stubborn, independent people that chose to scoff at
            
 destiny for I wanted to believe that I had complete
            
 control over my actions. But as the night progressed
            
 and as our conversation deepened I began to see things
            
 Andre argued that we do not have complete free will,
            
 but only a limited amount. The rest is up to destiny
            
 to decide, which we have no control over. The idea
            
 seemed bizarre and outrageous, especially with my
            
 mentality at the time. I was a strong believer of free
            
 will and the idea of some supernatural force that
            
 predetermines our actions sounded crazy. He then gave
            
 me an example.Andre said that destiny exists because
            
 if we were to travel back and relive a moment, we
            
 would have acted upon it the same exact way. I
            
 wondered why as he continued.We wouldn't change our
            
 actions for that was the way we felt at that specific
            
 time and place, after all environment affects our
            
 actions. The pieces of the puzzle began to fit
            
 together, as words of wisdom entered my brain. Andre
            
 said that the small amount of free will that we have
            
 over our actions play a significant role as well. He
            
 said that we do have a choice to make a stand in life
            
 and "live it", or pursue a future. "We have the choice
            
...