to express his feelings through marriage and it was looked down upon in the Utopian society to have children. Although getting married was discouraged it was not forbidden. There were no laws preventing John from having a wife or having children. However, he could not find a woman who would marry him. Females growing up in the Utopian society were through "sleep teaching" brain washed not to have relationships for long periods of time and were tricked into thinking that having children and getting married is disgusting. The Mustapha Mond, "the controller" of the Utopian society said "try to realize what it was like to have a viviparous mother" (Huxley, 39) to a group of students only to find them in severe disgust and discomfort. In 1984 the same principle applies. It was against the party if two party members were to have a relationship
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