Although for the religious person death can be viewed as a joyful
            
 passing from this natural life to an eternal spiritual existence, the
            
 subject of death is still not easy to address.  Our lives hold so many
            
 hopes, dreams, and plans, and when death comes, it means a sure end to all
            
 that we had hoped to accomplish, and all that we have done.  Relationships
            
 will no longer enrich us, and the loved one, although believing to pass on
            
 into eternal bliss, often passes through a gateway of pain or disease
            
       When we experience a major loss, grief is the normal and natural way
            
 our mind and body react. Although everyone grieves differently, a common
            
 pattern has been identified of 5 specific stages of the grieving process.
            
 Someone experiencing grief moves through this series of emotional stages
            
 which include shock, numbness, guilt, anger and denial. Physical responses
            
 can accompany these steps in the grieving process.   They can include:
            
 sleeplessness, inability to eat or concentrate, lack of energy, and lack of
            
 interest in activities previously enjoyed. Finally, time always plays an
            
 important role in the grieving process. As the days, weeks and months go
            
 by, the person who is experiencing loss moves through emotional and
            
 physical reactions that normally lead back toward acceptance, healing and
            
 getting on with life as fully as possible.
            
       Sometimes a person can become emotionally overwhelmed in the grieving
            
 process, and stay locked on one of the staged for a prolonged period of
            
 time.  There is no set time table for this process, and one often completes
            
 one step, and after time passes, cycles through the same step when
            
 different memories surface regarding the deceased.  Serious losses are
            
 never easy to deal with, but someone who is having trouble beginning to
            
 actively re-engage in life after a few months should consider getting
            
 professional help. For example, if continual depression o...