The definition of sexual or intimate relationships throughout the
            
 last 60 years has not changed, but the self imposed, and cultural
            
 boundaries have undergone a revolution.  Behavior which was once culturally
            
 ostracized is now considered a healthy part of expressing one's own sexual
            
 identity.  Cultural boundaries regarding homosexual relationship, as well
            
 as self - fulfilling sexual behavior are no longer pushed out of the modern
            
 mind, or hidden in the closet.  Our post modern world has moved
            
 significantly away from defining personal completion as what a person gives
            
 to another in a relationship toward defining self completion and
            
 satisfaction as what a person receives from another.  This shift takes the
            
 power regarding our own fulfillment out of another's hands, and keeps the
            
 ultimate responsibility for our own happiness in our own control.
            
       Successful relationships can be formed through many different ways of
            
 attraction including similarity of interest, differences that are
            
 complementary, reciprocal attraction, competence, self-disclosure, and
            
 proximity. Self-disclosure, intimacy, and respect are three of the most
            
 important ingredients in developing and maintaining a meaningful
            
 relationship. Self-disclosure is a deliberate and gradual process of
            
 revealing significant information about one's self to another that would
            
 not normally be known by others. The breadth of disclosure expands
            
 continually and extends through all the areas of life as two people choose
            
 to grow closer in an intimate relationship.
            
       Meeks, Brenda S., Susan S. Hendrick, and Clyde Hendrick have come up
            
 with a hypothesis that, "One's own self-disclosure and perceptions of the
            
 partner's self-disclosure are both positively related to one's relational
            
 satisfaction, with own disclosure more strongly related than partner
            
 disclosure" (Meeks et al, 1998). As partners  taking deliberate steps to
            
 continually b...