It was Saturday, the first Saturday of the month, and the girls were
            
 at it again.  Mohammed left early when he heard his mom clanging pots
            
 together in the kitchen. "MaMaaa, is Sana and Marina coming for lunch
            
 today'" he called from the flat roof after morning prayers.  "Yes, you
            
 sister  and grandmother are coming for the day. You know we meet every
            
 month on the  first.  Marina your sister has a new job at the retail store
            
 in town, and your grand mother is, well, she is the same as ever.  Ready to
            
 complain about the politician, the food, and the way you kids dress, but
            
 she is still my mother, and I enjoy her company.  We have seen many changes
            
 . .  and you should  . . ." Mohammed already had grabbed his work vest, and
            
 was headed out the door as his mother's voice changed from one of telling
            
 him about the day to judging his modern attitudes.
            
       "Good by MaMaa, I will be back after evening prayer." He called over
            
 his shoulder.  The last thing he wanted to do was to be lectured on his
            
 attitudes by his mother. He was a young man, and as he pulled on his
            
 brightly colored woven vest, Mohammed stepped onto his red Honda scooter,
            
       Lillianna went back to work on the layers of pastry. She was fixing
            
 her momma's recipe of Baklava which had been passed down to her by her
            
 mother.  The dough had to be just right, or Sana would have something else
            
 to complain about.  Although Lillianna respected her mom as the oldest
            
 living members of the family, her days were not often filled with the
            
 energy she was putting into the baking this morning. Having her mom and
            
 daughter Marina over was one of the bright spots of her monthly calendar.
            
 Since her husband was killed in the 1980 civil war, Mohammed, Marina and
            
 her mom were the focus of most of her life's energy. She still couldn't get
            
 the image out of her mind.  Her husbands business had been bombed during
            
 fighting in the neighborhood.  He wasn't even ...