The Electra Complex refers to a girl's desire for her father and
            
 dislike for her mother.  This Electra Complex actually derived from the
            
 male version of it, which is called the Oedipus Complex.  The Oedipus
            
 Complex was  first described by Sigmund Freud, whose theory suggested that a
            
 boy goes through a phallic stage between the ages of three and five.  While
            
 going through this stage the boy feels sexual desire for his mother, sees
            
 the father as competition for this desire and so rejects or dislikes the
            
 father.  At the same time though, the boy knows that he needs his father.
            
 This creates the conflict which the boy must resolve.  This is generally
            
 resolved by the boy identifying with his father.  In Freud's theory, this
            
 process leads to the child developing their gender identity.
            
       The Electra Complex was later added to the theory by Carl Jung, with
            
 the Electra Complex describing the female version of the same process.
            
 This refers to a girl feeling desire for her father and rejecting her
            
 mother, while also knowing that the needs her mother.  This creates the
            
 conflict, which the girl resolves by identifying with her mother.  The end
            
 result is that the girl comes to view herself as being female and develops
            
       Before continuing any further, it is worth noting that both Jung and
            
 Freud considered these processes to be subconscious ones.  The girl's
            
 desire for her father is not a conscious desire, instead it is an
            
 unconscious one, as is the end result of developing her gender identity.
            
       While the process is considered unconscious, like many people, Jung
            
 had trouble accepting Freud's strong focus on sexuality and desire.  This
            
 led Jung to eventually reject Freud's view of the Electra Complex.  Jung
            
 noted that relationships for both boys and girls were not as
            
 straightforward as Freud suggested.  Instead, Jung noted that some boys
            
 rejected their mothers and felt closer to thei...