d which are
             considered secondary for others. For example, relations with the mother are
             primary and those with other people such as siblings are secondary. The
             primary identifications happen first and the secondary identifications
             follow on a result of the primary identifications. Thus, Freud believes
             that all gender identifications occur in a set order. As a result of this
            
• You identify with one sex.
            
• You desire the other sex.
             Freud has explained homosexual attraction by claiming that when, for
             instance, a man desires another man, deep down he really identifies with
             women and this is the reason he desires a man.
             However, Butler strictly rejects this theory, as it does not leave any room
             for variation, for alternative influences on different people in different
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