sed. Finally, it is important to consider whether the gender
of the poets has resulted in the different representations of love. A
closer look at this issue will show that gender has not caused the changes,
with this confirming that the changes seen are a result of changes in the
The first poem that will be considered is Elizabeth Barrett
Browning's sonnet "How Do I Love Thee'" Even though it was written in the
19th century, this poem is still considered one of the great love sonnets.
Before considering this poem, it is worth considering how it fits into the
collection. It appears at the end of Browning's collection of poetry,
where the first poem begins when she met her husband, with the remainder
following the process as she falls in love. This includes that the first
poems appear like Browning is quite sad and searching for something. One
source describes the changes that occur from the first poem to the last
saying, "Browning has shown that she has progressed from being quite sad
and upset by her life to being very happy and content all because of the
love of another and his love for her" (Walker). Now that the context of
the poem has been provided, the poem can be considered in some detail. As
noted, the poem is about her future husband, who she has fallen in love
with. The poem begins with the line "How do I love thee' Let me count the
ways." This sets the poem up as being directed to her future husband.
This also sets the poem up as being a consideration of the love she feels.
The next three lines are a good example of the Victorian approach to love:
I love thee to the depth, and breadth, and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of being and ideal grace.
The line referring to "depth," "breadth," and "height" suggests more than
just the extent of her love. It also suggests how important love is to
her. Along with the mention of...