One of the predominant themes in William Shakespeare's play, Romeo and
            
 Juliet, is that the passion of love can rarely exist without the pain of
            
 love.  Shakespeare has captured realistic elements of life in this play as
            
 the young lovers experience the thrill of passion and the devastating
            
 effect of its loss.  The characters of Romeo and Juliet reflect many
            
 characteristics that make them seem real to us.  In their circumstance, we
            
 also see the hand of fate heavily influenced by character, which is one
            
 reasons why the play is so popular.  In the end, we realize that the pain
            
 of love would not be so great if not for the passion that sparked the love.
            
    The play is real because it is not too terrible happy and too terribly
            
 sad.  In fact, Henry Myers notes, "Here we see not a happy ending, as in a
            
 fairy story, and not an unhappy ending, as in some grim naturalistic tale .
            
 . . but a truly tragic ending, in which joy and sorrow are inevitably
            
 joined together--a victory in defeat, a victory of the human spirit
            
 accompanied by the inevitable defeat of finite human beings" (162). In
            
 addition, William Hazlitt asserts, "As are the desires and the hopes of
            
 youthful passion, such is the keenness of its disappointments, and their
            
 baleful effect. Such is the transition in this play from the highest bliss
            
 to the lowest despair, from the nuptial couch to an untimely grave"
            
 (Hazlitt). That Shakespeare decided to depict both sides of love is one
            
 element of the play that makes it realistic.
            
    The passion that these lovers experience is unmistakable and
            
 uncontrollable.  One of Romeo's  first reactions to Juliet is, "O she doth
            
 teach the torches to burn bright;/Her beauty hangs upon the cheek of
            
 night/Like a rich jewel in an 'thiop's ear" (Shakespeare I.v.41-6).  Juliet
            
 is instantly attracted to Romeo and when she discovers that he is a
            
        My only love sprung from my only hate!
            
        Too early see ...