her people not to put them down. That's my own choice, I picked that duty up and nobody laid it on me, I chose it for myself that is that I don't want to lay something on somebody else. Now we pick up duties for other people. That's a free choice. I did it or I did not. I can also lay the "duties" down. Again, it's a free choice, ok? And I don't choose to keep some "duty" for eternity that's my own choice; and I was responsible for accepting the duty, nobody laid it on me. I did that on my own. It is possible for one to start off with responsibility and end up with none in the end, but it is even harder to teach yourself from scratch how to have responsibility and use it in a good way, especially if you have never used
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