eel uncomfortable being close to or depending on others. Researchers believe that variation in love style is a result of the type of attachment relationship one had as a young child with the parents. [Hatfield, E., & Walster, G. W. (1978).]
To love another person means to feel compassionate towards them, to "feel" what they feel. Caring about someone, and what happens to them is also a sign of love. Sharing a relationship with someone means that you have to be responsible and have to be aware that there will be times when things go wrong. Loving someone means taking these "wrong" things and trying to fix them. Making sacrifices is one sign of devotion to another person. When you care about someone, you have to give a little. It all comes with life. In order to receive something, one must sacrifice other things. For example, if having to make a choice between the love of your life and going to a football game, a person who is truly in love, and not just in love with "being in love" will sacrifice the game in order to be with that person.
Being in love gives a sense of completeness makes one feel as if nothing else is needed in order to survive. Sometimes, being in love can act as a stepping-stone, or a doorway into a world you never knew was out there. It
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