People always wonder why women are beat today by boyfriends, parents, husbands, or even kids, and yet they take no action in correcting it. People also wonder why they ended up loving that person, or how? All in all, it boils down to one simple thing. Love is blind. Love is a crazy drug, which can do some wonderful god-giving things, or some nasty horrible crud.
"Love is blind it'll take over your mind. What you think is love it's truly not you need to elevate and find," Spoken by the famous artist EVE. When I think of love is blind this lyric always pops into my head. For those who have not seen the music video to this song, I recommend seeing it! The video is all about a couple together living in a house; the woman (victim) loves this man, yet the man beats her. She doesn't leave him because she is in love (she thinks). In the end he kills her, beats her to death really. You see the moral of the story all relates back to EVE's lyrics.
So why does the husband, boyfriend, kid, or parents. Beat the ones they love? I really don't know. Besides the fact, they're afraid of loosing that person so they hurt them. It lowers the victims self esteem just enough that they will stay. Or the victim is simple in love and thinks oh you know, "he loves me so it's ok." It's not one bit ok! Anyone who is beat or hurt deserves much better! Everyone for the most part falls in love at one time in their life. Beating someone is not love, respecting someone is.
Even though there's the harsh side of things, there's always the better end. Love and falling in love! When people fall in love, they don't know it. Who can actually tell you when they fell in love? "Well let's see, August 21st, 1985." I am real sure. When I think of love, I think of wonderful things, compassion, lust, giving your heart, and so much more. Yet I still ponder, how did I fall in love with this particular person? You can't help falling in love, it happens without your consent. Wh...