pated return it is a good idea for the parent to be directly involved with officials.
             To discover a child is missing is very traumatic. It is important to remain as calm as possible and seek assistance from family, friends and appropriate professionals. Since the process can be complicated, the search and recovery efforts are sometimes lengthy and often unsuccessful. Because of this, unrealistic expectations should not be made, or results wanted within a few days or - in some cases - even months. "Reasonable goals and expectations may include:
             § Obtaining early confirmation of where your child is located;
             § Obtaining early confirmation of the well-being of your child;
             § Arranging a meeting, as soon as possible, between your child and a Canadian official;
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