The Lifelong Effect of Parent

her, father, brother, sister, husband, wife, son, daughter, and a small cadre of close friends (Robertson 1). A motherƒ­s love is a crude offering, and according to Kennell and Klaus. In heir book Parent-Infant Bonding, there is a possessiveness in it, there's appetite in it. There is also a "Drat the Kid" element in it, there's generosity in it, there's power in it, as well as humility. However sentimentality is outside of it altogether and is repugnant to mothers (Kennell and Klaus 1). Some argue that attachment is one qualitative feature of the emotional tie to the partner. The operationalization of the construct (attachment) to determine the presence or absence has to be done by some measure of the interaction between partners, and Joe Mercer in Mothers' Responses to their infants with defects says: The mothers either respond to her infantƒ­s cries with affectionate behaviors and evokes the infants interacting to suggest the infant is a central part of her life, or she does. The infant either shows preferential responses to the mother, responds to her verbal and tactile stimulation, or does not. (Mercer 17). He further goes on to explain that it is easier for the infant to say the tie to the mother is absent, but the psychological complexity of adults make it far more difficult to say a mother has no bond to her infant (Mercer 19). Attachment is crucial to the survival and development of the infant. Kenneth and Klaus points out that the parents bond to their child may be the strongest of all human ties (Kennell and Klaus 3). This relationship has two unique characteristics. First, before birth one individual infant gestates within a part of the mother body and second, after birth she ensures his survival while he is utterly dependent on her and until he becomes a separate individual. According to Mercer, the power of this attachment is so great that it enables the mother and father to make the unusual sacrifices necessary for th...

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