My assigned lot in life is that of the mother of
a fifteen-year-old son. My son has not yet gone
through the growth spurt that always accompanies
I can imagine that as my son, I would feel
extremely self-conscious at all times. Speaking from
experience, it's hard to be so different than all your
classmates are. Many high-school students dislike
having distinguishing features that set them apart
from the rest, such as being short. These features
can be the basis for a lot of teasing and humiliation.
Being a female, I don't have any first-hand
experience dealing with a male's perspective, but I
would think it would be even harder to be a short boy.
Males in our society are stereotypically strong and
muscular. Rarely do we see couples in which the wife
is taller than the husband. My son must feel
humiliated by his peers because he does not fit the
Teenagers are very impressionable. They are
still trying to form their own identity, separate from
that of their parents. Most adolescents want to be a
person that everyone else likes and accepts, and some
will take drastic measures to be just that. It could
get to a point where my son would try to take some
sort of growth supplement from the back cover of a
magazine, which would not be a healthy idea.
Teenagers often have such a burning desire to fit in
that they hate themselves when they cannot. I say all
of this from experience, currently going through "the
The thing to remember, though, is that everyone
grows at a different rate, and not everyone is truly
laughing at you. This information will be extremely
hard for my son to believe, because I as a teenager
myself still don't get it. When you walk into a room,
it is impossible for everyone to be staring at you and
laughing about your appearance, because th
...