Roles of the Sexes The submissive role of the female
in a marriage or relationship is a common problem in
many societies, including our own American society.
This role has become so common that in fact it is now
expected of the female. This male dominance goes as
far back as the human race, to the beginning of
relationships and marriage between the female and the
male. Then, the physical prowess of the male led to
his dominance in all situations and thus formed these
roles. Even presently, with all our advances in equal
rights and women's' advances in the work fields, this
role of submission and passivity is still present
among our society. Why do women accept this role? Why
hasn't it banished with the right to vote and her
expansion into the male-dominated workplace? These
roles are inbred into our society. The men are raised
to lead and take charge. Women, on the other hand, are
taught that their place is to keep peace, and in most
scenarios that means conforming. There are many
reasons women accept or allow this role. For many
women, they find safety in allowing the male to
dominate the relationship. The submissive role is
familiar or so expected that the women fear changing
the situation. Many authors illustrate this role of
the sexes and portray some reasons and situations that
are common in our society, such as Sidonie-Gabrielle
Colette, in her story "The Hand", and James Joyce, in
"Eveline". These two authors both, even though each
describes a woman in a very different, yet remarkably
similar, situation, discuss one of the major reasons
women succumb to males. Colette was a significant
feminist in the early 1900's when the women's right
movement was in full swing. She fought for equal
opportunities for women and proved it was possible
when she was the first woman to be admitted to the
Goncourt Academy. As a novelis...