To define love is a mystery that many in history's time have tried to accomplish, but no real results have been derived. Even the most pure of loves, the love of a mother for her child has even been discounted at best and questioned at its less. When most speak of love, it is usually under the notion of love for a mate or spouse. As being human, we naturally take a lot for granted and the love for our family is one of them, but that is the greatest fallacy. Therefore, what we look for is love for another and so far according to history and statistics we really do not have a clue. Hopefully in these next couple of paragraphs many answers will be fulfilled in an interpretation of love.
             What we will look at is why we take love for family for granted and define what love for family is. In many scenarios, you have a family that takes what everyone has done for the family for granted and not appreciate them for it. This creates a dissonance that should not co-exist with a family and bitterness evolves. Now instead of being a family everyone is taking advantage of the title family and using their blood relatives for their greater good, but when the time comes will not do the same. This is not love at all. Love is all about give and take, sacrifices. Another form of family love taken for granted is when a parent does not unconditionally love their child, and will daily persecute them for imperfections that necessarily do not derive from within, but rather them as parents. The bitterness of past discretions that occurred to them as children still pet-rude and aggressions are taken on the child. Many times parents will try to live their lives through their children, and when the child does not conform to these ideological ideas of the parent then anger becomes present. This is not at all love or rather it is not unconditional love, which a parent should have for their child. One final depiction of a false sense of love in the family is ...