In the novel, An Open Life, by Joseph Campbell, I agree that life is like a novel and that disasters result in structuring a great aspect of your life.  If you really think about what Mr. Campbell is saying, he is right.  Looking back at my life with all the ups and downs I have experienced, made me who I am now, which is a great thing.  I had an experience with a boyfriend which caused me to get a great job to make as much money as my Mother.  A reading that makes me agree with Mr. Campbell quote, was when I read my Mother's journal that she kept from the start of my birth until I was ten.  An observation that I got to see was from the movie Don't be a Menace to Society While Drinking your Juice in the Hood.  In this movie, Ashtray becomes a man by observing on how his friends are.  I agree with Joseph Campbell, that life is like a novel.  
            
 	An experience I had with the opposite sex made me who I am now. One evening my boyfriend and I agreed that we would go out with some friends, and go our separate ways.  When he left, I called my friend to see if she wanted to do something.  We ended up going to the movies.  During the movie I noticed that my friend wanted to tell me something but backed off for a while.  When she could not hold it any longer, she told me to look back.  When I did, I saw my now ex-boyfriend making out with a girl.  I was devastated when I had seen that, I even ended up quitting college for this.  I was thinking about this all day and forgot to realize that I had a math exam the next day.  So what I did was that I quit college.  My Mom was very upset that I had quit for such a reason.  It was impossible living with my Mom when this had happened.  She did not like the fact that I quit school and did not even have a job to take advantage of.  But a couple of weeks later, 
            
 opportunity came ringing on the phone.  My aunt called and told me that she was looking for an assista
            
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