In Tillie Olsen's narrative "I Stand Here
Ironing," I interpreted that there was a reflection of
the loss of time and the sense of guilt between a
mother and daughter. This is displayed in the authors
word choice, point of view, imagery and tone.
Olsen begins her narrative while ironing and
talking on the phone. Her daughter needs help, she is
told. So she begins to ask herself a million questions.
She wonders why her daughter needs help, how she can
help her, and what she could have done to prevent her
from straying so far in the first place. As these
questions run through her mind the iron in her hand
moves swiftly back and forth in rhythm, throughout the
entire narrative. Ironing being an act of boredom.
With each movement she has a new thought regarding her
daughter; she questions how she could have raised her
In this essay one senses Emily's resentment toward
her mother. This is because of the way in which she had
been treated, for it is clearly obvious that Emily was
unknowingly denied the love and attention a normal
child would receive. What is odd though is that
throughout the narrative one can feel the love Olsen
has for her daughter. Nevertheless, this love that
Olsen claims to have for her daughter, is not expressed
enough to Emily, which, therefore, leads Emily to
acquire many feelings of resentment, neglect and
perhaps even betrayal toward her mother. A good example
occurs when Olsen is confronted about her love for her
daughter, and she says, "What was in my face when I
looked at her?" This clearly shows how unaware she is
This is suggested continuously throughout the
story when Olsen recounts how she had to send her
daughter away while she worked. Although, the act was
unintentional, too much time away from one's loved one,
for too long can have a drastic effect on a person;
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