ouse, for example, Baumer is
overwhelmed at being home. His joy and relief are such that he cannot
speak; he can only weep (Remarque, All Quiet VII. 140). When he and
his mother greet each other, he realizes immediately that he has
nothing to say to her: "We say very little and I am thankful that she
asks nothing" (Remarque, All Quiet VII. 141). But finally she does
speak to him and asks, "'Was it very bad out there, Paul?'" (Remarque,
Here, when he answers, he lies, ostensibly to protect her from
hearing of the chaotic conditions from which he has just returned. He
Mother, what should I answer to that! You would not
understand, you could never realize it. And you never shall
realize it. Was it bad, you ask.-You, Mother,--I shake my
head and say: "No, Mother, not so very. There are always a
lot of us together so it isn't so bad."
(Remarque, All Quiet VII. 143)
Even in trying to protect her, by using words that are false,
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