Advises for my son
             To survive as a happy human being you have to determine yourself as a person in a society. Of course there are different cultures and all of them are have differerences in appreciation of a person . But be sure, that all cultures accept and appreciate a person that can be considered a Man. Being a Man has an important meaning and it gives a man an ability to influence and an advantage to be respected. Even the cultures where being a Man has a little importance they will always accept and respect you as a strong person. But it is not easy to be accepted as a Man . It requires a lot of things combination of which makes a Man. But believe me living as a Man is a very pleasant and prideful thing.
             OK, then what it means to be a Man?
             I want you to know that being a real Man is very difficult and includes in it the best human characteristics. When I say the best human characteristics you have to understand what are considered the best human characteristics from my point of view.
             Remember to achieve the being a Man you have to achieve those characteristics combination of which creates a whole notion of Man. Those characteristics are the followings:
             1. Be smart and wise. As already being smart is also not so easy. Being smart gives you advantage to be respected. But smartness and wisdom is not all for a full and continuos respect. There is second characteristic.
             2. Be respectful. If you want to be respected. Remember respect always brings respect. Never show disrespect. Because every person needs respect, and showing respect to someone means recognizing a person as a person. Being recognized always gives a person a great feeling of pleasure.. That feeling of pleasure given by you sooner can be manipulated by you.
             3. Always show understanding and attention toward people. As I have seen during my lif...