Humans naturally strive for acceptance from others. We are taught from childhood to
contain our emotions. We act in a certain manner in order for people to perceive us in the
way we want to be perceived. Usually this is only how we want to appear, and it is not
how we really feel. These actions become masks. One may have many masks, and it
depends on what social group is observing at the time. People from every area of the
social spectrum want to be accepted by their peers, just as Mrs. Slade and Mrs. Ansley in
Edith Wharton's "Roman Fever." These two fictional characters are from upper society,
yet even they wear masks. Mrs. Slade and Mrs. Ansley, though fictional, reflects true
human behavior by putting on masks of pleasing others, emotions, and deceit.
Though knowing each other since childhood, Mrs. Slade and Mrs. Ansley knew
nothing personal about each other. Truthfully, they both secretly despised each other;
neither of them would have ever admitted that to anyone for fear of rejection by others in
their "group." They had an outward appearance of a strong friendship, but inwardly they
were complete strangers; they were fulfilling the goal of pleasing others. Their actions
reflect everyday reality. True feelings are rarely discussed for fear of what others may
think. Humans will smile on the outside even when their emotions are telling them to
Another example of how the two fictional characters reflect reality is their mask of
emotions. Throughout their conversation there are frequent and lengthy pauses, and it is
very strained and fake. Mrs. Slade and Mrs. Ansley casually talk about old times while
they are fighting an internal battle with their emotions. They try their best not to let their
emotions come out or get the best of them. The true emotions are contained causing the
conversation the be phony and forced. It is only when they let the ...