Parents tend to focus more on material
possessions rather than emotional feelings, which
can cause giving children less familiar attention
than they require. Many children suffer from low
self-esteem and the inability to share their
feelings because of not receiving enough emotional
support from their parent(s). Children who lack
emotional support reluctantly tends to hide their
feelings and are not able to get close to other
I Stand Here Ironing, by Tillie Olsen, begins
with a mother who is struggling in life and has a
lot of obligations to fulfill. "I stand here
ironing and what you asked me moves tormented back
and forth with the iron." This quote means even
while the mother is busy she still thinks about her
children and the comments they make. "I wish you
would manage the time to come in and talk-"; The
mother really does care about her children, but she
just doesn't know how to show her love and worry
about all the chores and obligations she has. "She
was eight months old I had to leave her daytime's",
"Emily's father, who could no longer endure." The
mother is having a hard time because her husband
responsibilities of a young child. The mother is
still a child too; she is nineteen years old and
struggling to find a job. "I found a job hashing at
night so I could be with her days." Maintaining a
job at night is tough because she returns home late
and is too tired to spend a lot of time or be very
loving to Emily. "I had to bring her to this family
and leave her." The long nights of work and days of
caring for young Emily is becoming too much;
therefore, the mother takes her to a family that
can take care of Emily like she needed. "It took a
long time to raise the money for her fare back."
The mother works hard to save the money to get
Emily back, and also saves enough money to be able
to afford a young child by herself. When Emily
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