There are many ways to flirt. You need to discover your own talents in this area. Until you
realize your own potential, however here is an easy-to-follow, step-by-step manual to
flirting. First of all, focus on the area around you. Keep the main focus and attention away
from yourself instead focus your attention on your flirting target. You can't flirt while
your self-absorbed. Next pick a common interest. If you already know your target,
communicate through your attitude that you are glad to see him or her. If you do not
know your target, then use a lingering glance or a small smile. Than sit up strait; never
underestimate the power of good posture! I don't know how or why this works, but it
does. Also the sence of touch is powerful. If you are a man, touch your flirting target on
the back or the shoulders. You can do this when you open a door, or help her pull out a
chair. If you are a woman, touch you flirtee on the arm, hand, or shoulder. Touch will give
you an instant indication weather your mate is interested or not. Also use your eyes. Your
eyes are the windows into your heart. It doesn't mater if this is in conversation or across
the room. Make sure you look at your flirtee's eyes a little longer than necessary. Also
make sure you keep a small smile on your face. Do not wink; winking is out.
Complementing is extremely important. To flirtatiously complement either a man or a
woman, mention something they do well or their appearance. Start with one complement
per flirting session. Be sure to learn body language. Face your target, keep your arms
uncrossed, and lean slightly forward. Now you need to learn how to dance, or at least
move to music. All great flirts have music in their being, and they use it to their advantage.
Finally, it is important to smile. Smile when you don't know what to say, and when you
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