I am the oldest one in my immediate family. I have a younger sister that is 16 years old. But I have one older step sister of 28 years old and 2 older step brothers, one is 26 and the other is 19 years old that my dad had in during is first marriage. But I still fit in the oldest for the birth theory because that I never leave with my 2 stepbrothers and my stepsister.
             By being the oldest I had to take care of my little sister. I was always protecting her, for example went we had to cross the street I was holding her hand, went she was at school if she had problem for anything she was going to see me and I was helping her. When our parents were going out I was always taking of my sister (babysitting). I was helping her when we were at home and she could not carry something because it was too heavy or with her homework when she had problem at school. I was telling her what is right and what is wrong (showing her the way to do things), for instance to be polite to other person. I had to give a good example because I had a lot of influence on my sister (she was doing what I was doing). She was asking me for some advice and she still ask for it now. And by being the oldest I am very independent, I like to do and experiment stuff by my own. For example when I was younger my mom could not decide what I would wear, I had to choose it and decide it by my own and there were no way that you could change my mind. When I was younger I was very shy and introverted. When it was time for me to do a speech in front of the class it was always very hard for me to do it.
             By being like this when I was a child I develop a personality when I grow up and still develop it. Now I am still very shy and reserve, I won't tell everything to everybody about what is going in my life for example. I analyses everything that is happening because it need to make sense to me for instance if I am not sure to go somewhere before taking a decis...