n could be nurtured differently at a young age and not grow up in a typical male and female setting they would turn out differently. If only women nurtured a male, then he would most likely become more feminine. If only males nurtured a woman then she would become more masculine. In this case, nurture would overcome nature. Influence at a young age will determine a person's character as they grow into an adult. Deborah Tannon writes how women naturally want to talk to their spouse about their feelings,
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