later:
I felt I was being punished by God for being really
bad, so I tried being really good so God would
change His mind... and let Dad come home
On the other hand, some youngsters feel relief when their parents
divorce, although, it appears that this happens to only a relative few. One widely
cited study found that fewer than ten percent felt this way - most often older
children who lived in fear that the violence in the their homes would end in
physical injury (Clapp, 94). Several studies have reported that initial feelings of
relief are sometimes temporary and are later replaced by sadness and anger.
Do children of different ages react differently to divorce? Some people
feel that divorce is easier on older children because they have more sources of
support outside the family. However, div
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